I am a newbie and at this time and I will be very brief with my peral history. I am originally from California, I was surfer dude and musician living the dream until partying became the priority in my life. Moved to Iowa in my early 30's to stay with my sister and go to college and I have been here ever since. I have been in some crazy relationships throughout my life and have been married and divorced once. In my marriage I felt bottled up and vanilla because I was never able to express my fantasies. For some rea I get turned on by imagining another man please my girlfriend or at the time wife. I could never feel comfortable expressing my dark fantasies with the women in my previous relationships except for one......and we are no more.. In regards to sex I love to explore the imagination of what two people can do with their sexual desires. I can get off just pleasing the woman and that's the truth. I love to be dark, kinky, and role play during those moments. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.