Professional, good shape, former college wrestler and army paratrooper, gym regular, looking for a pal to go to ball games, have fun and maybe some good hot sex. I am looking for quality people not quantity...I am more interested in finding people who might turn into good friends with benefits..rather than just a one night stand or a quickie in the backseat... although I have certainly enjoyed a few of those : ) with fond memories. I am divorced,but still need to be discrete; straight acting and looking; fairly new to man-man relationships and still learning the ropes. I still enjoy women but also want to explore the other side. I am an attorney and active in real estate investing. Looking for a hot guy that may develop a friendship along with some good hot sex. Friends with benefits would be great. Maybe a guy, who like me is looking for some discrete adventure on the side. I love to travel, make it to Mexico several times a year and to Europe at least once a year. Am self employed with a very flexible schedule. I live in Encinitas, north San Diego county. Would love to find a travel mate. I am an eternal optomist and always feel the glass is half full...have had too many whiney high maintanence women in my life and am thoroughly enjoying exploring new adventures with a great guy. I don't take myself to seriously and love to have fun; love to dance; hike;camp out;go boating; spectator sports...cuddle and make out. My motto: live every day to the max...you never know how many great days we have left. Thanks for taking time to read this and if interested drop me a line. Take care of yourself and each other.

My Ideal Person Good shape, fit, honest, good sense of humor, open minded, clean. Maybe a married or single bi-guy who wants some discrete adventure on the side. Some one who may want to develop a friendship as well as having some good sex.