I prefer one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind trying it with another woman in the room. We all have our urges and needs, and there's no point denying them, but I firmly believe we need both sides of the coin, the tender and the violent, the controlling and the supportive. I'm looking for a partner, not a slave. Just a partner who happens to enjoy sex! People often write "no mind games" in their profiles, or something similar. This makes no sense to me, as the ultimate dominance and submission isn't about physical power (though it may manifest as such), it's about emotional power. The entire premise is one giant mind game; a subtle dance of manipulation of wants and needs. NOW, let's have sex!

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who can be discreet. I'm perfectly happy with leaving the romance out of it, and meeting people for sex encounters. I'm very much into play.