MARRIED BUT READ ON BEFORE YOU QUIT READING THIS PROFILE. I am a married man, 55 (but acts and looks more like 45), who has been hurt once to many times. But the marriage is ending and I am free to meet other women with no drama.. My wife of 24 years cheated on me once years ago (a one night stand bringing the guy into our own home while I was out), and then a 6 month long affair with another guy to the point where she was ready to leave me and move in with the guy. This affair left me impotent and I have seen Doctors about it. They feel the problems is psychological and could change with another woman. Its finding a woman who is affectionate, passionate, loving, loves sex, loves oral sex (both giving and receiving) and is patient. My wife begged me to forgive her and to give her another chance and I gave her a 3rd chance. She had another affair lasting about 12 months. I HAVE HAD IT! I am ready to find another woman. I am a very loving, caring sensitive, trusting guy (maybe too trusting). I like honesty, someone who is trustworthy, open minded. sexual, creative, intelligent, friendly, passionate, and wants a good friend that she can open up to and that will be there for her when she is lonely and needs a shoulder to lean on. We are still not sure when we will get divorced, but she is moving out soon so that another woman can move in. Things are going downhill, I haven't made love in 7 years. But right now we live as roommates, no sex, no passion, no love. Looking for the right woman with strong sexual passion to help me but I need a friend and lover. Looking for something that could end up longterm. Until I find the right woman, I wouldn't mind having a FWB relationship hoping that the woman I get together with make solve my erection problem. Someone very sexual and passionate may be able to get me past this psychological problem. I love to talk, watch movies, long foreplay, chats over coffee about all sorts of topics, and all types of sex. I am overweight (have lost 100lbs within the last 8 months), My 2nd and 3rd profile pictures are current, but I still have to lose more of my stomach. I was also a professional photographer and would be fine with a friendship where you would want me to take photos or videos for you (bikini, lingerie, nude, masturbation,etc) You would get a copy of all the shots for yourself to keep or to use in your profile. No sex expected, just a photo session.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a single female between the ages of 30-50 who is open minded, loves to talk, and is looking for a friendship that may lead to more. She must be fairly attractive or cute, preferably with medium to long hair, and shaved or waxed pussy. No hair at all as I LOVE extended oral when I go down on a woman. She must have extremely good hygiene as I have an ultra sensitive nose and even faint odors are strong to me. My preference is for medium to large breasts. Height between 4'11 and 5'8. Body wise I am not fussy. I actually prefer a woman with a little extra padding, ample. I also like average size and petite, but general they have no interest in a larger guy. I would also like a woman who loves oral sex as much as I do, and is very talented at it. (if she can get me hard). I have no STDs and she shouldn't either. She must also have a job and be looking for a LTR.

FANTASY WISE: I would love to meet a woman with a beautiful shaved (or waxed), pink pussy with a large clit to suck on. And I have always wanted to try fisting a woman. Again these are just fantasies not deal breakers.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
April Wine, Alice Cooper, STYX, and more

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage, Eating pussy for hours

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, I prefer real people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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