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rm_timmor12 35 M
6  Articles
Call once, call twice, call three times im no nice.   11/8/2004

fellas, fellas, you havin trouble getting rid of that out of date baggage, needs to be tucked away in the closet of crazy bitches. Well, i have much experience in making the wrong decisions on breaking up with girls at the worst times. First of all, if your roommate forgets to pay electric bill and you stay over at girls house for a week, and once the power was turned back on, you dumped ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 10 Votes
what do you gotta do to get laid?   11/5/2004

I just thought i would ask the question....is it the apperance or the game?????


1 Comments, 12 Views, 18 Votes ,3.53 Score
No Means No   11/5/2004

What do you do when someone e-mails you. You check the profile and decide he is not a match for you. You don't reply. The next day he e-mails you again. You answer and tell him no he is not a good match. You wish him well. Then again he emails asking why not and won't stop. Do you have to be rude to get someone to understand NO means No?


4 Comments, 13 Views, 23 Votes ,6.28 Score
kinkydetroitcpl2 50 C
13  Articles
Sorry not interested   11/3/2004

Why does it seem that when a man has a steady piece of ass, the women of his past keep coming around looking for some.But when said man is single, he's treated like he has the plague.Seems to me that women get turned on by sticking it to other woman.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 22 Votes ,7.21 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
why so many suffer from amnesia,relating to their profiles..........   10/31/2004

Why is it that so many women, on this site are so full of themselves...? Dont ever reply to mails, totally ignore you, but on reading their profiles, they are seeking men. i've noticed some of them don't even bother to check you out, yet the same people, in chat room xplain their failed meetings with other members..perhaps had they responded to my mail, it would have been better. ...


1 Comments, 36 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
saying no thanks   10/30/2004

The hardest thing I had to do was say 'no thanks' to a man. After chatting for months I just can't bring myself to meet him.. he is too nice for me. Mr perfect in every way shape and form. Oh well, so life goes.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Sometimes there's no way around it...   10/28/2004

Sometime they're just too damn fat or too damn ugly to fuck. And you should just tell them that instead of leading them on and hurting their feelings.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
mrcofwi 67 M
6  Articles
... and receiving a "No Thanks"   10/26/2004

Many people - especially many women here - have abandoned extending a polite "Thanks, but no thanks" approach. Many started out with good intentions. But they've found that offering this polite response can often be more hassle than it's worth. <br> Some of the contacts they've rejected get all needy. Instead of accepting that the person they first approached was not interested, ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 41 Votes ,7.86 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
what is so hard in saying..........no thanks...   10/25/2004

Find it very rude when you mail someone, and they dont even reply....?? what is so hard in saying..no thanks......?? always reply to people, an politely too....


0 Comments, 29 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
friendsfirst2004 58 M
83  Articles
re: what is so hard in saying "no thanks"   10/25/2004

There are so many problems involved with saying "thank you for your interest, but no thanks". <br> First and foremost. Many if not most messages that women and couples get are from people who do not meet many or all of their preferences. Your SEX, age, distance and body type/race/wants are always of the utmost importance. If you are a guy looking for women, 18 to 25, slim, and ...


2 Comments, 9 Views, 29 Votes ,8.05 Score
Respectfully Saying No Thanks   10/24/2004

Have you ever meticulously poured over a "Matches" profile, then drafted a detailed email to them only to never hear from them at all. I don't think a response should be expected from sent winks or mindless network invitations. However if someone has taken the time to draft a personalized email, that was respectful, witty, inquisitive, and non pushy, the recipient should at least respond with a ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
rm_fun19591962 65 C
1  Article
That's you in that picture!   10/23/2004

That’s you in that picture! Yeah, maybe 5 years ago when your boobs weren’t sagging to your thighs. I realize people want to look good but is it fair to mislead those that you are talking to? More than once, we have met with people who their pictures are at least 5 years old and do not look anything like their pictures they sent. I am honest with the people I talk to on ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 75 Votes ,8.21 Score
Don't be an ass   10/20/2004

Lady's don't be an ass about saying no. You have no idea the balls it takes to ask someone to have sex. IF you don't want just say youg rather not. And if i guy doesn't want to have sex for whatever reason, don't be an ass to him now either. Your both adults so act like it.


1 Comments, 12 Views, 13 Votes ,1.63 Score
rm_Leman2 80 M
5  Articles
Re: No Thanks   10/20/2004

I agree. As a fella, I write lots of emails hoping for a reply. When no reply comes after say 2 weeks, I have many more emails which MAY elicit a reply so I delete the old ones. I do not think I am God's gift to women. I am VERY grateful to the many ladies who have become my 'on-line' partners through this site. I am still hopeful that one of them will one day meet me. Till then I live in ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
rm_WildDi 49 F
1  Article
Men who just can't take no for an answer!   10/19/2004

Why is it that AdultFriendFinder users sometimes will email you over and over asking why you declined their network invitation??


0 Comments, 61 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
Here is my No Thanks   10/18/2004

OK guys lisen up here is my "No Thanks, I'm not interested" If someone does not take the time to read my profile and does not come close to what I am seeking on here I don't bother with the NO THANKS. Females get to much mail to weed through to send off a no thanks to everyone especially those that cleary did not read the profile. Then when we do we get the "WHY NOT"? or you hurt their ...


1 Comments, 7 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
rm_fuzznut63 60 M
1  Article
Re: Question for the guys.   10/17/2004

Yes. She wasn’t my type on the personal level and also wasn’t attractive to me physically. p.s. she smelled like I was in a barn


0 Comments, 14 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
Ibecookn69 43 M
7  Articles
The word NO.   10/17/2004

The word no is a womens gun in society, once she pulls it out everyone will stop and think twice about the situation. However, what if a man was to say no, it doesn't have a strong meaning whereas comming from a women, why is that? I have said no but the women thought I was joking but I was not, do you understand the case tell me what you think should the word no be universal everyone can ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 18 Votes ,5.44 Score
Nothing   10/17/2004

The easiest way to let someone know you aren't interested of course is to say nothing. That however is rude, or a bit snobbish at the very least. Now as a man on this site we tend not to get all that many emails outside of the spammers or so it would seem by many articles I have read etc. so do the right thing and let the real ladies replying to your ad know that you aren't interested. As ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
rm_bman_reno 40 M
4  Articles
If you don't want us to call, don't give your number!   10/15/2004

A lot of younger women have a tendency to want to avoid saying 'no' to someone who tries to get their number even if they don't actually like them. I guess they figure it's more polite and easier to deal with guys by just giving away their number and not returning calls but it's really misleading and annoying. <br> Try to be honest and direct: If you don't want to give out your ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 22 Votes ,7.45 Score